A Thoughtful Approach to Movement
- Lauren Matthews
- Dec 15
- 3 min read
Updated: 1 day ago
Most people decide to start working out because something feels off.
Pain shows up. Strength feels unreliable. Balance feels shaky. The body no longer responds the way it used to. And often, the underlying question becomes: what do I need to fix?
Over time, working with bodies has changed how I understand that question.
The body is not broken. It is adaptive.
What often needs attention is not a single muscle or joint, but how the body is organizing itself as a whole.

Movement Is a System, Not a Collection of Parts
It can be tempting to reduce movement to individual pieces. Tight muscles. Weak areas. Poor posture. But the body does not operate in isolation.
Bones stack in relationship to each other. Muscles respond to that organization. Breath influences pressure and support. The nervous system decides how much effort feels safe.
When one part of the system changes, everything else responds.
This is why symptoms often move around. This is why pain is rarely local. This is why strengthening one area does not always resolve the issue.
Movement makes more sense when it is viewed as a system rather than a set of problems to solve.
Support Looks Like Alignment, Breath, and Awareness
When bones are stacked efficiently, muscles no longer have to grip for stability.
When breath is responsive, pressure is distributed rather than contained.
When awareness increases, the body gains options.
These elements are subtle, but they are foundational. They reduce unnecessary effort and allow strength to express itself more cleanly.

This is why movement can feel easier without being less effective. The work becomes more intelligent. This is what a thoughtful approach to movement looks like.
The Nervous System Is Always Involved
No movement happens without the nervous system.
If the nervous system does not feel safe, the body will prioritize protection. Muscles tighten. Range of motion decreases. Movement becomes cautious.
When the nervous system feels supported, the body allows adaptability. Strength becomes accessible. Balance improves. Effort decreases.
This is not about relaxation. It is about trust.
Trust grows when movement is predictable, responsive, and organized.
Pain as Information, Not Failure
Pain is one of the most misunderstood signals the body offers.
It is often treated as something to eliminate or push through. But pain is rarely random. It reflects how load, stress, and effort are being managed.
When pain is listened to rather than ignored, it often reveals exactly where support is missing.
Addressing pain through organization rather than force frequently changes the pattern without fighting the body.
Movement Over Time
Bodies change.
What works at one stage of life may need adjustment later. Capacity shifts. Priorities evolve.
Movement practices that honor adaptability tend to last. Those that rely on force often burn out.
This perspective is echoed in Chinese medicine philosophy, where health is closely tied to balance, responsiveness, and the ability to adapt to change rather than resist it.
Moving well over time is not about maintaining a perfect body. It is about maintaining a relationship with your body.

What Pilates Offers
At its best, Pilates is not just exercise.
It is a way of learning how your body organizes itself, how it responds to load, and how effort can be distributed more evenly.
It offers a framework for building strength, awareness, and support without unnecessary strain.
This is why it works so well for people dealing with pain, aging bodies, injuries, or simply wanting to move with more ease.
Final Thoughts: A Thoughful Approach to Movement
You do not need to fix your body.
You need to understand how it is responding to the demands placed on it.
When movement is approached with curiosity rather than judgment, the body often reorganizes itself more effectively than force ever could.
Moving well is not about perfection. It is about support, awareness, and trust built over time.

Lauren Dalke is a STOTT-certified Pilates instructor with over 15 years of experience, specializing in private sessions that integrate biomechanics, functional strength training, and nervous system–informed movement. She is the founder of LDV Pilates in Mar Vista, CA.







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